Urban Magazine’s September issue spotlights multi-hyphenate creative Erika Bryant (@erikabryant), who returns for her second cover as she approaches her 50th birthday and reflects on more than two decades working across music, television, producing, writing, and entrepreneurship. Bryant discusses the importance of betting on yourself, following purpose over money, building creative teams with compassion, and embracing fear as a catalyst for growth. She also opens up about her forthcoming book, Doing It Scared in Love & Relationships, exploring vulnerability, intimacy, ambition, and giving yourself permission to make room for love while still pursuing a fully realized life. Other features include the soulful singer/songwriter Davion Farris (@iamdavionf), Def Jam's R&B singer Genia (@geniawashere), Ashia Montgomery (@ashia90day) of 90 Day Fiancé, and so much more.
and the people creating it. What have you learned about leading teams? I've learned to handle everybody with grace. We're all going through something in our own walks of life. Yes, we have a larger mandate at hand: to do the job and deliver for our bosses. We're serving many masters and pleasing many chiefs, if you will. I think it's about giving grace and leading with compassion, while also being teachable. Just because I'm a leader doesn't mean I know everything. It means we're a team. Just like a fist, you need your thumb and your pinky to make a true fist. You pack less of a punch if you don't. I learn from my staff all the time, from a PA to a supervising producer to a co-EP. When everyone approaches the work with that openness, it creates a better experience. I also like to have fun at work. We get to create television and content; it should be enjoyable. The job requires you to pivot, think quickly, and find solutions.
In the original Doing It Scared, you described fear as something that can signal growth rather than something to avoid. After everything you've accomplished since writing that book, how has your relationship with fear changed? Fear is my muse. My relationship with fear has changed in the sense that I lean in heavier now. I see fear as this mountain that looks insurmountable. But if you approach the mountain and lean into that fear—not avoid it, not ignore it, but walk toward it—on the other side of that fear is the unlived version of ourselves. With this book, I leaned heavily into things I feared. They say, 'Be careful what you pray for.' I knew the title before I knew the content, and then life happened. Over about 18 to 24 months, I experienced some of the hardest lows and some of the highest moments, including getting married. I feel like God never gives us more than we can handle. If you're willing to do the work and lean into the fear, you really do come out on the other side a better-lived version of yourself. By conquering that mountain of fear, when you get to the summit, the blessings are there.
With the forthcoming Doing It Scared in Love & Relationships, you've taken that philosophy into the realm of love and intimacy. What do you hope readers take from this book? I knew it was supposed to be about love and relationships because I'm building this Doing It Scared umbrella, sort of like Chicken Soup for the Soul. I had the title way before I had the content. Fear is fear is fear, whether it's in a career, in relationships and love, or in learning how to ride a bike or swim. The first book was more of an invitation: 'Hey, come on, guys, let's go conquer some fear together. You can do it.' This book is an initiation. It's, 'Okay, now let's roll up our sleeves and start digging,' because relationships are where the fears truly exist. Relationships are what we're born
“JUST BECAUSE I'M A LEADER DOESN'T MEAN I KNOW EVERYTHING. IT MEANS WE'RE A TEAM.”