Urban Magazine’s September issue spotlights multi-hyphenate creative Erika Bryant (@erikabryant), who returns for her second cover as she approaches her 50th birthday and reflects on more than two decades working across music, television, producing, writing, and entrepreneurship. Bryant discusses the importance of betting on yourself, following purpose over money, building creative teams with compassion, and embracing fear as a catalyst for growth. She also opens up about her forthcoming book, Doing It Scared in Love & Relationships, exploring vulnerability, intimacy, ambition, and giving yourself permission to make room for love while still pursuing a fully realized life. Other features include the soulful singer/songwriter Davion Farris (@iamdavionf), Def Jam's R&B singer Genia (@geniawashere), Ashia Montgomery (@ashia90day) of 90 Day Fiancé, and so much more.
There is a question floating around social media that men seem to love asking women: “What do you bring to the table?” It is usually asked with a certain tone. Not from genuine curiosity, but from a place of judgment. As if a woman must present a list of qualifications before she can be considered worthy of love, commitment, protection, or respect. As if her value is something she must prove while the person questioning her offers nothing but a seat and an opinion. But let’s be clear. Women have always brought something to the table. In fact, women have been building the table, setting the table, feeding everyone at the table, and cleaning up after people who arrived with nothing but an appetite. Women bring life into this world. We raise children, maintain homes, build careers, earn degrees, create businesses, support dreams, manage crises, and carry responsibilities that often go unseen. We remember the appointments, the birthdays, the conversations, the details, and the things everyone else somehow forgets. We are expected to be soft enough to nurture, strong enough to survive, wise enough to advise, and independent enough not to need too much. Then, after doing all of that, someone still has the nerve to ask what we bring. A woman brings vision. She can see