Welcome to KISS KISS. We are a London-based magazine exploring romance in all its complexity, not the fairy tale, but the messy, lived experience. KISS KISS traces the many ways intimacy shapes our lives, challenging how we think about romance, identity, and connection. Stylish, intelligent, and unafraid to look at love with open eyes. KISS KISS moves through four movements: The Rush, The Routine, The Reckoning, and The Repair. From first-date nerves and situationships to secure intimacy, toxic patterns, and heartbreak, we trace the ways love shapes our lives today. Inside, you will find personal stories, cultural observations, and reflections on identity and desire. We explore the thrill of attraction in Scent or a Scam? The Truth About “Pheromone Perfume” (p.12), the comfort of routine in Garlic Bread is Better Than Sex (p.32), the challenges of obsession in Are We Dating… or Just Replaying? (p.40), and the subtle art of reinvention in How Dementia Changes Love (p.60). Fashion, culture, emotion, and love intersect here, reflecting how a generation fluent in the modern digital world experiences romance. This magazine doesn’t romanticise love. It documents it unapologetically, honestly, and with style. Because even in a world of fleeting moments, love is still urgent, still compelling, and still worth noticing. Kiss Kiss invites you on this journey. We hope you enjoy this first issue as much as we do.
Written by Nandini Khurana
Ghostlighting, sweeping and everything in between, KISS KISS takes a look at the latest dating trends...
Gen Z is used to the brutality of swiping right or left in seconds. If someone doesn't catch your eye instantly, they're gone. Dating has become fast, visual, and almost instinctive. But with that speed has come a more cut- throat culture, one where connection can feel disposable and attention spans are shorter than ever. What once felt like an easy shortcut to meeting people now comes with hidden costs. Messages still hum with warmth, but not all of it is real. In 2026, screens don't just create connections, they can stage them. Carefully curated profiles, perfectly timed replies, and just enough vulnerability can make something feel genuine, even when it isn't. Affection can blur into pressure. “Nice” can quietly shift into expecta- tion. What feels like someone leaning in can actually be them taking something from you, whether that's time, emotional energy, or even money. And because everything moves so quickly, red flags don't always register in time. They get lost in the rush of constant notifications and the excitement of something new. Behind the aesthetics and algorithms, intentions don't always match the energy being given. The habit of making snap decisions, replying instantly, and chasing momentum can mask warning signs under a sense of urgency. You're not always given the space to pause and ask, is this actually real? Because when dating becomes about speed over substance, emotional safety doesn't always keep up.
Fake affection often comes disguised as patience, unfold- ing over weeks before requests appear, gift cards first, then apps, sometimes crypto. Detective Superintendent Oliver Little from the City of London Police calls romance fraud "a deeply personal betrayal that can leave lasting emo- tional scars." The year 2025 saw losses hit £106 million due to scams on dating platforms. Nearly 10,000 cases were logged by the City of London Police alongside their fraud division. Over that period, every reported victim lost an average of £11,000.
Ghostlighting is a combination of gaslighting and ghost- ing. Gaslighting refers to manipulating someone into questioning their own memory or perception of events, while ghosting is when someone abruptly cuts off com- munication without explanation. This emerging trend in- volves a person disappearing, then returning with excuses that minimise or distort their absence. These explanations often include claims of confusion, missed messages, or ex- ternal circumstances, subtly shifting the narrative. Accord- ing to Kyler Shumway, Psy.D., a licensed therapist speaking to Men's Health, ghostlighting occurs when someone cuts off contact and later returns with dismissive explanations, leaving the other person doubting what really happened. New York-based dating expert Anna Morgenstern told Yahoo! UK that this behaviour is not just inconsiderate but manipulative, as it avoids accountability and can shift blame onto the other person. In conversations on the streets of London, the impact is immediate. “It messes with your head more than just being ghosted," Tanya, 22, says. “At least with ghosting, you know it's over. With this, questioning yourself." "It's not the silence," I observed, "it's the return that makes you doubt what you experienced in the first place." Tanya says.