Welcome to KISS KISS. We are a London-based magazine exploring romance in all its complexity, not the fairy tale, but the messy, lived experience. KISS KISS traces the many ways intimacy shapes our lives, challenging how we think about romance, identity, and connection. Stylish, intelligent, and unafraid to look at love with open eyes. KISS KISS moves through four movements: The Rush, The Routine, The Reckoning, and The Repair. From first-date nerves and situationships to secure intimacy, toxic patterns, and heartbreak, we trace the ways love shapes our lives today. Inside, you will find personal stories, cultural observations, and reflections on identity and desire. We explore the thrill of attraction in Scent or a Scam? The Truth About “Pheromone Perfume” (p.12), the comfort of routine in Garlic Bread is Better Than Sex (p.32), the challenges of obsession in Are We Dating… or Just Replaying? (p.40), and the subtle art of reinvention in How Dementia Changes Love (p.60). Fashion, culture, emotion, and love intersect here, reflecting how a generation fluent in the modern digital world experiences romance. This magazine doesn’t romanticise love. It documents it unapologetically, honestly, and with style. Because even in a world of fleeting moments, love is still urgent, still compelling, and still worth noticing. Kiss Kiss invites you on this journey. We hope you enjoy this first issue as much as we do.
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For Dean, 32, the distinction is more straightforward and something he feels he's grown out of. “If you're anxious about when they're replying and what to say,” he says, “it's probably not love - it's lust.” For him, love is defined by calm rather than intensity. “When it's love, it should feel comfortable and natural. Sometimes it's fun to chase, but it ends in tears for everyone." It's a perspective shaped by experience rather than idealism. “I don't want the drama anymore,” he says. “If it's something casual, accept that. Don't take it further.”
The word situationship is rarely used for something that works. Instead, it is applied to connections that end before they ever begin. That is where the stigma comes from, not necessarily because the experience is always negative, but because it lacks resolution. Something unfinished, something unclear.
"You're getting all the feelings of a relationship - and it's just not that"
Across the experiences on Brick Lane, no single definition holds. For some, situationships are defined by imbalance and frustration; for others, they offer freedom, clarity, or even growth. What remains constant is not the experience itself, but the uncertainty surrounding it – a relationship shaped as much by what is left unsaid as what is felt. Its meaning shifts depending on who you ask. That grey area is where the situationship lives – and perhaps why it continues to persist. Not as a failure of modern dating, but as a reflection of it: fluid, undefined, and still being figured out.