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FROM “Why Me?”
Sonali Singh founder and CEO of Ripple Effects Studios in Mumbai, India, reflected on what remains when people strip away their identities, professional labels, and external roles. She saw that beneath those labels lies a deeper sense of self and that Humility, Kindness and Love can emerge from that place. Singh praised the thousands of volunteers who helped organize the conference without seeking commercial gain. For Singh, the real test of HKL was not how people behaved in a room filled with warmth and in spiration, but how they responded during conflict and difficulty.
Sonali’s challenge to you: Could you contin-
Meixner travelled from London, UK, to Canada for the conference. She shared three poems exploring self-worth, everyday kindness, love, and collective hope. The room fell silent as her words were felt deeply and moved the hearts of attendees.
Her first poem, Breathe, encour aged listeners to look at themselves with the same appreciation they often give to nature.
Her second poem explored the small moments of kindness found among strangers in everyday life.
Her final poem, I Hope You Make It, was presented as a wish for humanity.
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universal desire for people to be safe, loved and able to find a place that feels like home. Her message expanded from individual hope toward collective hope, including a desire for peace, equal rights, and a world where children do not have to experience suffering.
The morning concluded with an emotional presentation from Joe Fornasier, a member of Canada’s blind hockey team.
Fornasier described falling in love with hockey at the age of three. At age 10, however, he rapidly lost 96 percent of his vision because of Leber’s hereditary optic neuropathy. Doctors told him he would see the world through shapes and shadows and would no longer be able to play hockey. He struggled with anger, grief, and the feeling of asking, “Why me?”
School became difficult be cause he could no longer read normally and he faced bullying from other students. He eventually developed a new dream of becoming a television and radio personality, only to have another student tell him that he could not be on television because he could not read a teleprompter. Once again, he believed the limitation.
His father then introduced him to blind hockey. Although For nasier initially rejected the idea because of his negative association with the word “blind,” his father insisted he try. On the ice, Fornasier discovered that he could play using his hearing rather than sight. He fell in love with hockey again.
He travelled throughout North America, won rookie of the year, and eventually decided that he wanted to become the youngest person to play for Canada’s national blind hockey team. His father’s response was simple: “Why not?” For the first time, instead of asking “why me? ”Fornasier thought “why not me?” At 16, Fornasier became the youngest player in history to make the Canadian National Blind Hockey Team. He later won a gold medal.
The experience also changed his understanding of the community. Sitting beside a blind lawyer and a blind engineer, he realized he had allowed other people’s expectations to become barriers to his potential.
He applied the “why not me” mindset to education, taking summer school courses, and receiving tutoring. Four years lat er, he graduated high school with a scholarship to Wilfrid Laurier University. He then returned to his media dream by creating his own content. Through TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube, he shared hundreds of videos about his life as a blind athlete. Within three years, his social media platforms had gained more than 190,000 followers and generated more than 200 million views. What he thought was his weakness turned out to be his greatest strength.
Joe Fornasier’s question to you: Identify one thing you had previously thought you could not do and ask yourself a different question, why not me?