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Leadership Under Pressure
Dr. Lobna Chérif, chair in resilience and professor at the Royal Military College of Canpositive psychology, Chérif described HKL as character strengths that can be developed.
ada in Kingston, Ontario, followed with a discussion of char- The Real Test acter, resilience, and leadership.
Comes After the stories, music, and experiences from the conference back to her students and family. Her closing message was a call to practice HKL in everyday life rather than leaving it inside the conference venue.
Chérif explained that her work Conference in military psychology and leadership may not immediately appear connected to Humility, Kindness, and Love. But she argued that these values have an important place in military leadership.
Military leaders make decisions under pressure. And when pressure increases, what is inside a person becomes harder to hide. Habits, emotions, thoughts, biases, values, and character all become visible. Drawing on Chérif said the difficult part of HKL is not practicing it inside
Dr. Lobna’s ask from a room filled with people who you: Take this message of already believe in these values.
The real test comes tomorrow. HKL and practice it, think
It comes when something diffi about it, and feel it in your cult happens. It comes when the everyday life.
ego rises. It comes when people disagree, become angry or feel threatened. That is when Humility, Kindness, and Love have to become real.
Chérif said she would take the Dr. Lobna Chérif
Chair in Resilience and Professor, Dept. of Military Psychology and Leadership, Royal Military College of Canada (Kingston, Ontario, Canada)
Dr. Lili Liu, Dean
Faculty of Health at the University of Waterloo (Waterloo, Ontario, Canada)
The conference then turned toward health, education, and generosity with Dr. Lili Liu Dean of the Faculty of Health at the University of Waterloo.
Dr. Liu reflected on generosity as one of the strongest expressions of Humility, Kindness, and Love. Her research into older adults living with dementia introduced her to remarkable volunteers and family caregivers. She noted that millions of people around the world live with dementia, but emphasized that behind the numbers are spouses, children, friends, and neighbours whose lives are profoundly affected by caregiving.
time pilot. Photographs, sounds, music, and memories helped bring his story to life. When the film was shown to his family, they were able to see him not simply as a person struggling with dementia, but as a courageous young man who had once served his country.
For Dr. Liu, the moment demonstrated that dementia care cannot be measured only by restoring memory. Sometimes success means preserving identity, dignity and connection. The conference then featured a Candlelight concert performance of selections from Antonio Vivaldi’s Four Seasons, including pieces from Summer and Winter.
The music offered a quiet transition from the conference’s intellectual and personal reflec tions to the spiritual and cultural experiences that followed.
Dr. Liu shared a story of a man living with dementia who struggled to communicate. Through a digital storytelling project, researchers worked with him and his family to create a short film about his earlier life as a war-
Amazing performance by Candlelight at The 7th HKL Conference.