GET TO YOU
This one's about when everything about a relationship or person reads well on paper but you can't connect with them no matter how much you want to. It's supposed to work but it doesn't and you don't know why. You're supposed to really see them, but you don't. They're supposed to really see you, but they don't. Maybe you feel a bit of guilt around that, maybe just frustration. It sucks to dig and dig and dig and not be able to reach what you're looking for. I wrote it for a friend but I think deep down it was sort of for me too.
One of my favourite songs I've ever written! I love it so much. it's about reassuring someone that you're not going anywhere and in a sense reassuring yourself that love is only as scary as you allow it to be. giving up control is not something we always feel safe doing, but I do feel like a heart really is safe in the right hands, some things are just right and obvious. also John mayer guitar solo. One of the best moments of my life.