Class of 2026 | BCAEd & BPEd Visayas State University Institute of Human Kinetics
Bless Angelou:
The Difference That Made The Difference
"At the end of the day, I guess I was different after all."
This was the quiet acceptance of a newly 22-year old student, her name is Bless Angelou Montebon. To the Viscan community, she is simply "Bless," her agnay. Yet, beneath the campus surface lies a multilayered creative identity that many ignored. In the digital landscape, she thrives as Jin Gorda on TikTok-a multifandom editor commanding a community of over 15,000 followers and as dabaeisda on Ao3, crafting narratives primarily for the Katseye fandom. But behind this thriving digital success stood a starkly contrasting reality on the ground.
College was never a walk in the park socially, and isolation seemed woven into her very DNA. Raised by a single mother with a disability (PWD), she carried an inherent distinctness in how she acted and presented herself. From her youth, peers maintained a noticeable distance. Remembering her initial expectations of university life,_she chuckled, recalling how she thought her experience would mirror Tada Banri's from the anime Golden Time. Instead, university life felt like a complete scam.
The social landscape grew more complex whenever she revealed her playful side. There were times she felt an underlying friction, wondering if her classmates harbored resentment or if she was merely overthinking. Watching others form effortless circles bred a quiet jealousy. In her darkest moments of isolation, she viewed herself as a slump, a pebble, a defect, and an oddball. When the emotional weight became too heavy, tears were her only release, born from a deep longing for warmth and human comfort. She ultimately concluded that she simply lacked whatever social mechanism others possessed. While the isolated often treat the internet as an escape, she found herself simultaneously fatigued by both her digital and physical realities. When conflicts arose, such as when fingers were pointed or scoldings occurred, she absorbed the impact like a resilient, silent punching bag. If society required a villain, she was willing to play the bad cop, self-proclaiming that she was the root problem-worse, the Institute of Human Kinetics' (IHK) ultimate problem.
However, as the adage goes, "only time will tell." The turning point arrived when the batch faced a rigorous trial in a specific major subject. Amidst the pressure, she emerged as one of the benchmarks of her peer group. Beneath her competitive drive lay a genuine willingness to extend a helping hand, and she consistently anchored her group's momentum and laid down their foundational success. This specific academic trial became the catalyst that unlocked her dormant social skills and utilized her untapped talents. It was a definitive turning point, marking a seasonal awakening where she finally embraced her hibernating self. Though far from perfect, she steadily evolved into the exact type of educator that modern society requires.
Beyond the formal curriculum, her growth was deeply rooted in solitary exploration. Driven by an innate curiosity, she pursued knowledge outside the university gates, mastering the intricacies of bodybuilding, caloric mechanics, running physics, gym equipment functionality, and advanced exercise principles. For her, true expansion happened during these solo excursions rather than within the confines of a traditional classroom. While institutional facilities provided the necessary baseline, her independent journey offered a profound sense of educational liberation.
Ultimately, VSU and IHK equipped her with invaluable competencies: the art of unyielding confidence and straightforward communication. Navigating interpersonal dynamics on a scenic campus forced her out of her shell. These attributes are now safely packed into her professional toolkit as she prepares to exit the university. With a voice that was low but fiercely resolute, she declared a new dream: to tell a story worth listening to, no matter how ridiculous it may seem.
"Be not afraid of being alone," she offers as a parting baseline of advice. "It is your choice to make. Having freedom is happiness. Use your talents and hone them."
Her trajectory through university was defined by distinct stages, eras, and developmental phases, with her very uniqueness becoming her defining trademark. Guided by the institutional wisdom that learning is a long-lasting, continuous process, this philomath continues to push forward. Armed with patience, fueled by solitude, and completely outcomes-based in her personal growth, Bless Angelou Montebon is well on her way to reaching the pinnacle of her goals, ready to inspire the next generation as a versatile educator.
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