The issue features international recording artist Tolou @tolouofficial, A Different World actor Joshua Suiter @josh.suiter, Bri @theroyalspolylife of WeTV's This Is Poly, Girls Who Brunch @girlswhobrunchtour founder Ni'Cola Mitchell @drnicolam, musical maestro DJ Era @godjera, and more!
“YOU HAVE TO KNOW HOW TO PROBLEM-SOLVE, WORK TOGETHER, AND FUNCTION AS A FAMILY AND A UNIT.”
How do you work through jealousy and insecurities in this type of relationship? You have to know how to communicate. You have to know how to be a village. You have to know how to problem-solve, work together, and function as a family and a unit. It’s about having a foundation. It’s also a lifestyle.
What led to the decision to bring your relationship to television? We were really just being ourselves. They had actually been watching us for a long time. Eventually, they picked us up, and they loved us. We ended up becoming the number one show in the U.S. during our run, and we were also the number one couple on the show. People liked our authenticity. They loved the family dynamic. They also loved the idea of us wanting 999,000 women. So, of course, we’re going to keep it going. We’re definitely coming back for season two.
Where did the idea of having such a large relationship come from? We love women. We really want to create a huge village and eventually have a compound. We want this to become more than just a lifestyle. We want to expand.
Is it almost like a tight-knit community here? Yes, a community. We definitely want to expand.
What has been the most challenging part of bringing your relationship to a reality show? Showing people that polyamory can be normal. For us, it’s no different from a monogamous relationship. We do many of the same things people do in monogamous relationships. That’s how we make everything work. There can also be financial benefits because there are more people contributing and more hands helping.
What do you think people misunderstand the most about polyamory and the way you choose to live? Some people think polyamory isn’t good for children to see. Some people think it’s pimpish or just a money grab. People also see it as taboo. They think about orgies or swingers. Some people also think polyamory has to involve only three people when it can actually involve multiple people.
What would you say are some of the best parts of it? The best part is the love. It’s like quadruple the love. It can also be