The issue features international recording artist Tolou @tolouofficial, A Different World actor Joshua Suiter @josh.suiter, Bri @theroyalspolylife of WeTV's This Is Poly, Girls Who Brunch @girlswhobrunchtour founder Ni'Cola Mitchell @drnicolam, musical maestro DJ Era @godjera, and more!
“I WANT EVERY GIRL TO LEAVE BELIEVING SHE CAN DO AND BE ANYTHING. ACCESS CAN CHANGE THE WAY A YOUNG PERSON SEES WHAT IS POSSIBLE.”
Your own life story has become part of your advocacy work, including the Lifetime film ‘Giving Hope: The Ni’Cola Mitchell Story.’ How has sharing your personal experience helped you connect with girls who may be going through difficult situations of their own? Sharing my story helps girls understand that the person standing in front of them has also survived difficult experiences. They may first hear about Ford, Black Enterprise, Lifetime, or Netflix, but then I tell them I was raped multiple times by age 15 and became a teen mother. That changes how they listen. Some girls tell me they relate to what I went through. I believe my vulnerability and candor keep them connected and show them that difficult circumstances do not have to determine the direction of their lives.
Corporations, community organizations, schools, volunteers, and sponsors all play roles in supporting programs like Girls Who Brunch. What does meaningful support from a company or community partner look like beyond simply writing a check? Meaningful support includes access, education, volunteers, and money. Companies can invite girls into their workplaces, show them different career paths, and teach practical skills. We’ve worked with construction companies and with Chase Bank on financial literacy and bank accounts. Barclays Bank in Las Vegas sent nearly 50 employees to help with setup and breakdown. Financial support still matters because even donated goods have shipping and transportation costs. For us, service and funding are both essential, and companies can make a difference by contributing their people as well as their resources.
When a girl walks into a Girls Who Brunch event and later walks out, what is the one thing you hope has changed in the way she sees herself and her future? I want every girl to leave believing she can do and be anything. Access can change the way a young person sees what is possible. When girls meet a lawyer, doctor, celebrity, or another woman they admire, they can begin to think, ‘If she did it, I can do it.’ I serve 59,000 girls, and many call or text me about what they plan to accomplish. I tell them they can be better than me. The first person they need to believe in them is themselves. That belief can change everything.
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