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My Life. My Wishes.

By alexander titmuss-Morley

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May 12, 2026
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  • CoverMy Life. My wishes. Brought to you by Life.
  • Table of ContentWelcome Message Funeral
  • WelcomeMessage Welcome to my funeral wishes.
  • FuneralThere are many different options when it comes to funerals. Some people choose a natural burial, returning to the earth in one of the purest and most natural ways, perhaps wrapped in linen or placed within a wicker coffin. Others prefer a more traditional funeral with a black hearse, a formal service, and those around them gathering to mourn their loss. Direct cremation is also an option, where there is no service or ceremony, and the ashes are simply returned afterwards. Some people choose this for its simplicity, while others do so because of cost.
  • Page 5My Funeral
  • Page 6There are many different types of coffins available today. Coffin
  • Page 7Care At Life Funerals, people are cared for with the utmost sensitivity, respect, and dignity at all times.
  • Choice'sThere are many different additional options available when arranging a funeral. As standard, here at Life Funerals we create an online tribute page in memory of the person who has died. This can also be linked to a particular charity that may have been close to somebody's heart. It provides a place where family and friends can come together to honour a life, share memories, Other optional choices can include flowers, obituary notices, stationery, and professionally printed order of service booklets. Some families also choose small keepsakes for those attending the funeral, such as packets of seeds, sweets, remembrance tokens, or a favourite photograph displayed on top of the coffin.
  • Page 9Ashes There are many different options when it comes to ashes and what can be done with them afterwards. Ashes can be turned into keepsakes, such as jewellery, photo frames, pieces of artwork, or even candle holders that can be lit on special anniversaries or simply during moments of remembrance.
  • In SummaryI've always liked things done properly. As a craftsman, I believed in keeping things simple, honest, and made with care, and that is how I would like my funeral to be. I have chosen an attended cremation on the Isle of Wight where family and friends can come together to remember me, share stories, and celebrate my life. I do not want anything overly formal or heavily religious...just something warm, relaxed, and genuine.
  • AmendmentsMy Funeral Coffin
  • Page 12This booklet has been produced by 'Life.' to help document and record personal funeral wishes. Please note that the registration of funeral wishes is not a prepaid funeral plan. No money has been exchanged or secured towards the funeral arrangements or the future facilitation of the funeral detailed within this booklet.
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Funeral

I, Paul, have chosen to have an attended cremation funeral here on the Isle of Wight.

I am not sure how many people may attend, but I like the thought that those who wish to come can gather, reflect, and remember the times we shared together. Perhaps some may even pat a hand on my coffin as they leave the chapel. For that reason, I would like the curtains to remain open.

I would like Jonathan Skeet to officiate my funeral. There is a lovely connection there, as he also conducted Mum's funeral. I will already be at the crematorium before you arrive waiting peacefully, for you all to come to my service. Alex and the team will welcome everyone in and guide you to your seats, taking care of everying, carefully and respectfully.

Whilst there was a time in my life when I followed the Buddhist faith, I do not wish for my funeral to be tied to any particular religion. I would rather the service focus on celebration, reflection, and the happy memories people hold of me.

I have not fully decided on the music yet, and I will speak further with Alex about this. What I do know is that music should be part of the service, music as people arrive, a meaningful piece during the ceremony, and music as everyone leaves. Music has always been a huge part of my life, and the Brading Community Choir holds a very special place in my heart.

Please wear whatever you feel comfortable in. There is no expectation for formal dress simply come as yourself.