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Cole added, inadvertently turning the tables on our interview. 'But by focusing on money that doesn't exist, you're not fully appreciating the blessings that you're getting from your dream. It's pulling you away from the moment. It's steering you the wrong way.
After this conversation, I started to realise that my profession had taken over my entire life. It's easily done at the best of times, but for those of us who have made a career out of something we love and that we'd likely be doing anyway, the lines become increasingly blurry. It can be hard to recognise that we aren't looking after ourselves: at times, it was difficult to remember why I was doing what I was doing in the first place. I was doing all the things I believed were necessary for a successful career, and I wanted to build my following and gain recognition: but what was it all for? I think that this is a vital question to repeatedly ask ourselves every time we feel a little lost in order to return to a sense of presence and intention.
In a recent interview I did with Joey Bada$$, he talked about the importance of knowing what our personal understanding of success is. 'When you're exposed to so much externally, it's hard not to compare or
'Hip hop artists are able to help shape our lives as peers, mentors and role models.' measure yourself against what's going on around you," he explained. 'At the end of the day, there's always going to be someone who is more advanced than you, or further on in life than you are. But that is no reason to measure up your own life or your own success, because everyone's path is different.'
While it's easy to get swept up in the many metrics that attempt to quantify success, it's more important to reflect on the personal significance of our actions and experiences. If you'd have asked me to define myself 10 years ago, I'd probably say I was a hip hop journalist. But by listening to the music more closely over the past decade, its true power has come into sharper focus: I now see how hip hop influences everything I do and who I am, holistically, as a writer, editor and person.
If there's one thing I hope you take away from this piece, it's to consider your own potential, your own definition of success and your own sense of who you are. Hip hop, after all, teaches us to embrace and celebrate our uniqueness, not to follow the crowd.
Grant Brydon is the author of Life Lessons From Hip Hop, out now via DK/Penguin Random House.