A collection of pleasure products, goods, and services found in Panama City, Panama, curated by pleasure concierge Deborah Porter, with sensual articles and essays.
Over these few years, I’ve been diligently building community using pleasure as the thread running underneath everything I wove together. I produced an Erotic Poetry Night for a room full of strangers who left feeling like they found their tribe, then six months later, gathered them for an erotic game night that proved pleasure and play are the same social instinct wearing different outfits. These events started small but have been silently blossoming. For the Christmas holidays, I hosted the Naughty List Brunch, a private salon where real women had real pleasure conversations over mimosas and tinsel. My mission to bring more eroticism and sensual pleasure to Panama is why I was invited to sit on a panel at AEFEST in Bogotá, talking pleasure trends and strategy to a room of hundreds of like-minded people who came from across Latin America hungry for exactly this conversation. It’s why I crafted the first and only Panama Pleasure Guide, so the women I meet at these events have access to something they can use as a resource, not just a faded memory.
It’s why, for three years running, I’ve produced and co-curated the Panama Erotic Art Exhibition, watching local and international artists turn sensual desire into something you can hang on a wall. It’s also why this year I used my obsession for delicious food and sensual pleasures as the motivating factor to launch Whet Sensual Supper Club dinners—where a succulent meal is only half the menu. Somewhere in the margins of all of that, I’m still writing my collection of erotic short stories that have remained my foundational truth—fed by women who've whispered their dirty little secrets over dinner and fueled by my own ongoing erotic education in what it means to want something out loud. All of it ignited by a sexy man from a dating site.
I’m sharing all of this with you all not to impress you, but to give you permission. What has driven your pleasure journey? If a stranger’s well-written story could reroute the next thirty years of my life, imagine what paying attention to your own pleasure could do for you. You don’t need a dating site epiphany. You just need to tap into your own pleasure points, to stop treating your desires, your longings, like something to apologize for. This is your permission to care for and get intimate with yourself. To look beyond your daily grind and the world’s chaos to discover the mysterious delights of your own body, your sensuality and pure pleasures in your life.
This is why I’m like this—with a pleasure focus in everything I do. Not to be scandalous, but to be whole, and to share this pleasure revolution with other women. Pleasure was never the reward for a good life. I truly believe it is the recipe for living a full life. And that is the whole point of the Panama Pleasure Guide—it’s not a celebrity gossip rag, a self-help manuscript or a timid directory. But it is a map. A way to help you find pleasure events and activities, erotic art, products, goods and services, to engage with other pleasure seekers, and your permission slip to enjoy all of it. Welcome to the pleasure revolution.
Now, just breathe as you turn the pages—the world around you is about to get a lot more interesting.